Filipino LGBTQ+ Emerging Adults’ Conceptualization of Romantic Relationships

Authors

  • Louis Miguel Cardona University of the Philippines Los Baños
  • Inero Ancho University of the Philippines Los Baños
  • Helga Vergara University of the Philippines Los Baños
  • Teri-Marie Laude University of the Philippines Los Baños
  • Rufo Gil Albor University of the Philippines Los Baños
  • Daisy Pelegrina University of the Philippines Los Baños
  • Phrygian Almeda University of the Philippines Los Baños

DOI:

https://doi.org/10.37329/ijms.v3i1.3953

Keywords:

Emerging Adulthood, LGBTQ , Modern Love, Romantic Relationships

Abstract

This study investigates the narratives of contemporary romance among Filipino LGBTQ+ emerging adults, emphasizing their lived experiences, modern influences, and cultural determinants that form their relationships. A qualitative phenomenological design was employed to conduct semi-structured interviews with eight participants from a state institution in Laguna, Philippines. The findings indicated that romantic connections are crucial in identity exploration and self-affirmation. Participants characterized love as a collaboration founded on reciprocal respect, emotional intimacy, and equality, contesting established conventions and heteronormative standards. Digital platforms facilitated connections and provided safe spaces for users; nevertheless, they also engendered obstacles, including false expectations and superficial interactions. Cultural influences, including familial expectations and Catholic ideals, were substantial, offering both obstacles and avenues for growth and authenticity. This study offers insights into the interplay between identity, culture, and love; but, its limited sample size and concentration on a particular university restrict its generalizability. Future research ought to investigate many contexts, encompassing rural regions and a wider array of socioeconomic demographics, while analyzing the changing influence of technology on LGBTQ+ relationships. This study emphasizes the resilience of Filipino LGBTQ+ emerging adults and advocates for inclusive legislation and community assistance to foster acceptance and equality.

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Published

05-02-2025

How to Cite

Cardona, L. M. ., Ancho, I., Vergara, H. ., Laude, T.-M. ., Albor, R. G. ., Pelegrina, D. ., & Almeda, P. . (2025). Filipino LGBTQ+ Emerging Adults’ Conceptualization of Romantic Relationships . International Journal of Multidisciplinary Sciences, 3(1), 49–70. https://doi.org/10.37329/ijms.v3i1.3953